Mu\u1ed1n con ng\u1ee7 s\u1edbm th\u00ec n\u00f3 l\u1ea1i ch\u1eb3ng ch\u1ecbu \u0111i ng\u1ee7, mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3 d\u1eebng b\u00fa m\u00e0 n\u00f3 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu, l\u1edbn l\u00ean m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat th\u00ec n\u00f3i c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng nghe, v\u00ec nh\u00fat nh\u00e1t m\u00e0 b\u1ecb thi\u1ec7t th\u00f2i\u2026C\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u v\u1ea5n nh\u01b0 v\u1eady khi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang ta nh\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ea7u trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con. B\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef n\u00e0o \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng nu\u00f4i con \u0111\u1ec1u hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gian n\u00e0y r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n. Trong quy\u1ec3n s\u00e1ch n\u00e0y, t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n v\u00e0 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean \u201cc\u00e1ch khen\u201d, \u201cc\u00e1ch m\u1eafng\u201d, \u201cc\u00e1ch d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7\u201d tr\u1ebb.<\/p>\n
Ngay t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ea7u, ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m sao \u0111\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c con m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o? Ph\u1ea3i nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o?Vi\u1ec7c hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb r\u1ea5t c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 \u0111ang g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con.Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft chia s\u1ebb v\u1ec1 quan \u0111i\u1ec3m nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1i d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean s\u1ef1 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb t\u1eeb Masami Sasaki, b\u00e1c s\u0129 chuy\u00ean khoa t\u00e2m l\u00fd tr\u1ebb em, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u1edbi r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u v\u1edbi c\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi con c\u00e1i, \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c truy\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ea1t m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch d\u1ec5 hi\u1ec3u. Do \u0111\u00f3, vi\u1ec7c hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u201cb\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t\u201d c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i l\u00e0 quan tr\u1ecdng. V\u1edbi t\u01b0 c\u00e1ch l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9, t\u00f4i ngh\u0129 l\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng \u201cb\u00ed quy\u1ebft\u201d \u0111\u00f3 trong vi\u1ec7c nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y. L\u00fac \u0111\u00f3, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 t\u1edbi Salon Hidamari \u1edf th\u00e0nh ph\u1ed1 Akita c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 Wakamatsu Aki – nguy\u00ean l\u00e0 c\u1ef1u gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean m\u1eabu gi\u00e1o. Salon Hidamari l\u00e0 n\u01a1i t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c c\u00e1c kh\u00f3a hu\u1ea5n luy\u1ec7n d\u00e0nh cho c\u00e1c b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 \u0111ang nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con.T\u1ea1i \u0111\u00e2y, th\u00f4ng qua truy\u1ec7n tranh v\u00e0 kho\u00e1 h\u1ecdc d\u00e0nh cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u0103m s\u00f3c tr\u1ebb, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng b\u00ed quy\u1ebft th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 \u1ea5y \u0111\u1ec3 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con.<\/p>\n
Trong cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch n\u00e0y, ngo\u00e0i nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n trao \u0111\u1ed5i kinh nghi\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y t\u1eeb b\u00e1c s\u0129 Masami Sasaki v\u00e0 c\u00f4 Wakamatsu Aki, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u0169ng th\u00eam v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i \u0111o\u1ea1n gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u khi c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cha m\u1eb9 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o.<\/p>\n
Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1ea5t vui n\u1ebfu qu\u00fd v\u1ecb \u0111\u1ed9c gi\u1ea3 t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trong quy\u1ec3n s\u00e1ch n\u00e0y nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean h\u1eefu \u00edch v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y tr\u1ebb.<\/p>\n
\u0110o\u1ea1n tr\u00edch hay:<\/p>\n
Ph\u1ea3i ch\u0103ng khen con c\u00e0ng nhi\u1ec1u th\u00ec c\u00e0ng t\u1ed1t?<\/p>\n
G\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y,c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u01b0a ra, ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 c\u00e1ch d\u00f9ng l\u1eddi khen \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1ea1y con. C\u00e1c b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 l\u00e0m theo l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean \u0111\u00f3 n\u00ean c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng kh\u00f4ng la m\u1eafng con m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 d\u00f9ng l\u1eddi khen \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1ea1y b\u1ea3o ch\u00fang.C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 l\u1ee1 m\u1eafng con nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea5t ch\u1ee3t nh\u1edb ra li\u1ec1n ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c c\u00e2n nh\u1eafc l\u1ea1i c\u00e1ch d\u1ea1y con c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 h\u1ecd lu\u00f4n t\u1ef1 nh\u1ee7 r\u1eb1ng ph\u1ea3i khen tr\u1ebb.<\/p>\n
Khen v\u00e0 m\u1eafng t\u01b0\u1edfng nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i l\u1eadp nhau nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ngh\u0129 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady.N\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 khen qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u, hay n\u00f3i c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c m\u1ed9t khi vi\u1ec7c khen tr\u1edf n\u00ean d\u01b0 th\u1eeba, th\u00ec tu\u1ef3 v\u00e0o n\u1ed9i dung c\u1ee7a l\u1eddi khen c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd g\u00e2y ra s\u1ef1 c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng cho tr\u1ebb.V\u00f4 t\u00ecnh ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m cho tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 suy r\u1eb1ng \u201cN\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0y s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khen; n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m theo nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf s\u1ebd b\u1ecb m\u1eafng\u201d.M\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khen c\u0169ng s\u1ebd g\u00e2y \u00e1p l\u1ef1c cho tr\u1ebb, t\u1ea1o t\u00e2m l\u00ed b\u1eaft ch\u00fang ph\u1ea3i c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea7n t\u1edbi c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khen.Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, n\u1ebfu l\u1eddi khen tr\u1edf n\u00ean d\u01b0 th\u1eeba c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t.<\/p>\n
M\u1eb7t kh\u00e1c, ch\u00fang ta ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c la m\u1eafng s\u1ebd l\u00e0m tr\u1ebb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng. Tuy nhi\u00ean, n\u1ebfu cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 truy\u1ec1n t\u1ea3i cho tr\u1ebb hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 h\u1ecd suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 l\u00e0m l\u00e0 v\u00ec tr\u1ebb th\u00ec ch\u1eafc r\u1eb1ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng.Ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m sao \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eb1ng \u201cV\u00ec b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 lu\u00f4n ngh\u0129 \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t cho m\u00ecnh n\u00ean khi m\u00ecnh l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang m\u1edbi b\u1ecb la\u201d. Ngay c\u1ea3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng c\u00f3 l\u00fac b\u1ecb ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y la, ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia m\u1eafng.Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i c\u1ee9 khen l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 m\u1eafng l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t.\u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft khen \u1edf m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 v\u1eeba ph\u1ea3i, m\u1eafng \u1edf m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 v\u1eeba ph\u1ea3i. \u0110\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hai \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5. \u0110I\u1ec2M GI\u1ed0NG NHAU GI\u1eeeA VI\u1ec6C KHEN V\u00c0 M\u1eaeNG QU\u00c1 NHI\u1ec0U<\/p>\n
Trong cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch \u201cNh\u1eefng tr\u1ebb s\u1ed1ng bi\u1ec7t l\u1eadp trong nh\u00e0\u201d (\u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c xu\u1ea5t b\u1ea3n b\u1edfi trung t\u00e2m Village), Yutaka Shiokura – hi\u1ec7n l\u00e0 ph\u00f3ng vi\u00ean thu\u1ed9c b\u1ed9 ph\u1eadn Khoa h\u1ecdc x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u1ee7a b\u00e1o Asahi, c\u00f3 nh\u1eafc \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 may m\u1eafn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng v\u00e0 l\u1edbn l\u00ean trong m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u00f3 danh ti\u1ebfng trong khu ph\u1ed1, nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i ng\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e3i \u0111\u1ee9a con c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n
Theo \u00f4ng, ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 n\u00e0y t\u1eeb khi c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf \u0111\u00e3 n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c v\u00e0 c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u th\u00e0nh t\u00edch t\u1ed1t trong h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp, c\u00f4 \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 v\u00e0o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc m\u00e0 bao nhi\u00eau ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1eb1ng m\u01a1 \u01b0\u1edbc, r\u1ed3i k\u1ebft h\u00f4n v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi.Nh\u01b0ng cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 li h\u00f4n.Sau \u0111\u00f3, c\u00f4 sinh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a con nh\u01b0ng lu\u00f4n ng\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e3i n\u00f3.<\/p>\n
Ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00f3 n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng: \u201cT\u00f4i ch\u01b0a t\u1eebng c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1eeb ch\u00ednh ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 sinh ra n\u00ean t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch chia s\u1ebb t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng cho \u0111\u1ee9a con c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh\u201d. C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p nh\u1eefng b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 v\u1ed1n thu\u1ed9c tu\u00fdp ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00f4ng minh, ngay t\u1eeb nh\u1ecf \u0111\u00e3 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng bu\u1ed3n, kh\u00f4ng gi\u1eadn; ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1eddi khen t\u1eeb b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9\u2026Nh\u01b0ng ch\u00ednh h\u1ecd, khi tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh cha m\u1eb9 c\u0169ng d\u1ec5 c\u00f3 khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00ean con c\u00e1i.D\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 h\u1ecd th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean s\u1ed1ng trong tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i l\u00e0m cho b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i bu\u1ed3n phi\u1ec1n. Tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ea3i n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp v\u00e0 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng t\u1eeb cha m\u1eb9.C\u0169ng c\u00f3 tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p nh\u00ecn tho\u00e1ng qua th\u00ec m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng: \u201c\u00c0, \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y t\u1ed1t qu\u00e1\u201d nh\u01b0ng th\u1eadt ra b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9 \u0111\u00f3 ch\u01b0a t\u1eebng c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1eeb b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9, t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 l\u00e0 do n\u00f3 b\u1ecb \u00e1p l\u1ef1c t\u00e2m l\u00ed \u201cph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf\u201d.<\/p>\n
Th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng khi tr\u1ebb l\u00e0m \u0111\u00fang theo \u00fd b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 th\u00ec s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khen, c\u00f2n n\u1ebfu tr\u00e1i l\u1eddi s\u1ebd b\u1ecb la.Tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khen r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u v\u00e0 b\u1ecb m\u1eafng c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i \u00edt.\u0110i\u1ec3m gi\u1ed1ng nhau c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c khen qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u v\u00e0 m\u1eafng qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u l\u00e0 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf.<\/p>\n
Cha m\u1eb9 ai c\u0169ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng v\u00e0o con c\u00e1i nh\u01b0ng nh\u1eefng mong mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 ch\u1eebng m\u1ef1c. \u0110\u1eebng b\u1eaft con c\u00e1i tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh b\u1ea3n sao c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c b\u1eaft ch\u00fang c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh cho l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang, l\u00e0 t\u1ed1ttheo \u00fd ngh\u0129 ch\u1ee7 quan c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.Nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb ph\u1ea3i s\u1ed1ng trong t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng l\u00fac b\u1ecb la, l\u00fac \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khen ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m sao h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng cha m\u1eb9 qu\u1ea3 th\u1eadt r\u1ea5t \u0111\u00e1ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng.T\u00f4i cho r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1eb3ng qua ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 \u00edch k\u1ef7, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 d\u00e0nh cho tr\u1ebb.<\/p>\n
Khi la m\u1eafng tr\u1ebb, \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec l\u00e0 quan tr\u1ecdng?<\/p>\n
Khi la m\u1eafng tr\u1ebb, h\u00e3y c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u0111\u1eebng l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u00f2ng t\u1ef1 tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. V\u1eady l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y?\u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 la m\u1eafng nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ecbnh nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb.<\/p>\n
M\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c la m\u1eafng l\u00e0 l\u00e0m sao \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eb1ng \u201cb\u1ecb la l\u00e0 do vi\u1ec7c m\u00ecnh l\u00e0m l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang\u201d.N\u1ebfu la m\u1eafng k\u00e8m nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb th\u00ec s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn cho tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c t\u1ef1 ti, kh\u00f4ng h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng v\u00e0 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0o b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n.<\/p>\n
L\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9, ai c\u0169ng v\u1eady, khi con ngoan th\u00ec s\u1ebd khen, khi con kh\u00f4ng ngoan th\u00ec s\u1ebd m\u1eafng. Nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb l\u1edbn l\u00ean v\u1edbi l\u00f2ng t\u1ef1 t\u00f4n r\u1ea5t cao, ho\u1eb7c nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb khi m\u00e0 s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng v\u00e0 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0o b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n qu\u00e1 m\u1ea1nh th\u00ec khi b\u1ecb \u201cch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch\u201d nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang m\u1ea5t l\u00f2ng tin \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh. Do v\u1eady, b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y v\u00e0 truy\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ea1t, g\u1eedi g\u1eafm \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ea3 khi khen ng\u1ee3i l\u1eabn khi la m\u1eafng con tr\u1ebb.Tuy nhi\u00ean, c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd r\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khen ng\u1ee3i th\u00e1i qu\u00e1, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c la m\u1eafng \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c ph\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ecbnh nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. \u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n c\u1ea3 \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Do v\u1eady, khi la m\u1eafng tr\u1ebb, b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 h\u00e3y ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1eebng \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb mang c\u1ea3m x\u00fac ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 ph\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ecbnh nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch hay c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Mu\u1ed1n con ng\u1ee7 s\u1edbm th\u00ec n\u00f3 l\u1ea1i ch\u1eb3ng ch\u1ecbu \u0111i ng\u1ee7, mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3 d\u1eebng b\u00fa m\u00e0 n\u00f3 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu, l\u1edbn l\u00ean m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat th\u00ec n\u00f3i c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng nghe, v\u00ec nh\u00fat nh\u00e1t m\u00e0 b\u1ecb thi\u1ec7t th\u00f2i\u2026C\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u v\u1ea5n nh\u01b0 v\u1eady khi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang ta nh\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ea7u trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con. B\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef n\u00e0o \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng nu\u00f4i con \u0111\u1ec1u hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gian n\u00e0y r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n. Trong quy\u1ec3n s\u00e1ch n\u00e0y, t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n v\u00e0 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean \u201cc\u00e1ch khen\u201d, \u201cc\u00e1ch m\u1eafng\u201d, \u201cc\u00e1ch d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7\u201d tr\u1ebb.<\/p>\n
Ngay t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ea7u, ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m sao \u0111\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c con m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o? Ph\u1ea3i nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o?Vi\u1ec7c hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb r\u1ea5t c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 \u0111ang g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con.Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft chia s\u1ebb v\u1ec1 quan \u0111i\u1ec3m nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1i d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean s\u1ef1 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb t\u1eeb Masami Sasaki, b\u00e1c s\u0129 chuy\u00ean khoa t\u00e2m l\u00fd tr\u1ebb em, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u1edbi r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u v\u1edbi c\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi con c\u00e1i, \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c truy\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ea1t m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch d\u1ec5 hi\u1ec3u. Do \u0111\u00f3, vi\u1ec7c hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u201cb\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t\u201d c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i l\u00e0 quan tr\u1ecdng. V\u1edbi t\u01b0 c\u00e1ch l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9, t\u00f4i ngh\u0129 l\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng \u201cb\u00ed quy\u1ebft\u201d \u0111\u00f3 trong vi\u1ec7c nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y. L\u00fac \u0111\u00f3, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 t\u1edbi Salon Hidamari \u1edf th\u00e0nh ph\u1ed1 Akita c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 Wakamatsu Aki – nguy\u00ean l\u00e0 c\u1ef1u gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean m\u1eabu gi\u00e1o. Salon Hidamari l\u00e0 n\u01a1i t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c c\u00e1c kh\u00f3a hu\u1ea5n luy\u1ec7n d\u00e0nh cho c\u00e1c b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 \u0111ang nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con.T\u1ea1i \u0111\u00e2y, th\u00f4ng qua truy\u1ec7n tranh v\u00e0 kho\u00e1 h\u1ecdc d\u00e0nh cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u0103m s\u00f3c tr\u1ebb, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng b\u00ed quy\u1ebft th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 \u1ea5y \u0111\u1ec3 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con.<\/p>\n
Trong cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch n\u00e0y, ngo\u00e0i nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n trao \u0111\u1ed5i kinh nghi\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y t\u1eeb b\u00e1c s\u0129 Masami Sasaki v\u00e0 c\u00f4 Wakamatsu Aki, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u0169ng th\u00eam v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i \u0111o\u1ea1n gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u khi c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cha m\u1eb9 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o.<\/p>\n
Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1ea5t vui n\u1ebfu qu\u00fd v\u1ecb \u0111\u1ed9c gi\u1ea3 t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trong quy\u1ec3n s\u00e1ch n\u00e0y nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean h\u1eefu \u00edch v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y tr\u1ebb.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"featured_media":8416,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":{"_acf_changed":false},"product_cat":[19],"product_tag":[],"supplier_id":null,"supplier_sku":"","barcode":null,"atum_controlled":true,"out_stock_date":null,"out_stock_threshold":null,"inheritable":false,"inbound_stock":0,"stock_on_hold":0,"sold_today":0,"sales_last_days":0,"reserved_stock":0,"customer_returns":0,"warehouse_damage":0,"lost_in_post":0,"other_logs":0,"out_stock_days":0,"lost_sales":0,"has_location":false,"update_date":"2024-04-28T21:11:49","atum_locations":[],"atum_stock_status":"instock","restock_status":false,"low_stock_amount":"","sales_update_date":"2024-04-28T21:11:49","calc_backorders":null,"acf":{"publisher":{"ID":1474,"post_author":"1","post_date":"2021-02-17 01:12:51","post_date_gmt":"2021-02-16 23:12:51","post_content":"","post_title":"Th\u00e1i H\u00e0","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"thai-ha","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2021-02-17 01:12:51","post_modified_gmt":"2021-02-16 23:12:51","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/sachviet.eu\/nha-phat-hanh\/thai-ha\/","menu_order":0,"post_type":"publisher","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"}},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sachviet.eu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/product\/8427"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sachviet.eu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/product"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sachviet.eu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/product"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sachviet.eu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8427"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sachviet.eu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/8416"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sachviet.eu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8427"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"product_cat","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sachviet.eu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/product_cat?post=8427"},{"taxonomy":"product_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sachviet.eu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/product_tag?post=8427"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}